How To Punish A Greedy And Cunning Girlfriend – Part 1.
How To Punish A Greedy And Cunning Girlfriend – Part 1
Some girls and some women think they are wise or clever when indeed they are not. One of them, who called herself Deka, tried to mess around with me sometime ago and I put her where she belonged. She would never try what she did to me on any other man.
Deka and I met for the first time in Festac Town, Lagos, in March 2013. It was during the wedding ceremony of a former colleague of mine and a course mate of Deka at the university of Benin, Benin-City.
As one thing led to the other, Deka and I became friends instantly. We exchanged our telephone numbers at the end of our discussion, and promised to be in touch with each other through phone.
In less than three weeks after that day, Deka made a request that literally shocked me. She demanded for US$1,000 (one thousand dollars) for her to renew the rent of her parents’ apartment, before their landlord could evict them, and I obliged her without much questioning.
About a month later, she came again with another bogus request. This time it was a request for me to buy her a new phone, as her existing phone had a recurring charging-point problem.
We went out together to a phone shop in Lagos. I expected her to pick a phone of US$300 dollars or less, but she didn’t. Instead, she went for the one of US$750, which was more than her three months’ salary. After wondering why a girl who was on a salary of $250 could be demanding for a phone of $750, I reluctantly granted her request.
There was no month that passed, between March 2013 and December 2013, that she did not make one request or the other, even when she had a good job, at least, by Nigerian standard. There were even some months that she made more than four requests, and I didn’t decline her any of those requests, because l loved her.
She was simply a demand-freak. If I add the money, I pay regularly into to her bank account and the ones I pay for her food at eateries to the above requests, you’ll indeed agree with me that l really loved her.
Ironically, from March 2013 that I met Deka for the first time, till the end of that year, more than nine months apart, I never saw her undies, let alone making love to her. Not because l was a celibate, but because she always turned down my request for sex.
Each time I request for sex, she would ask me: “Why are you in a hurry to eat the food that belongs to you and which you would eat until you get tired?” Whenever she said that, I would soft-pedal and wait for the day of joy to come.
The next time I made another request for sex from her, after my last request in December 2013, was in August 2014. Was I not patient enough?
Her response that day was: “You’ve come again. Why are you rushing the food that you’ll eat and get tired of? I didn’t push further, after that rebuke, because I loved her. Instead, I decided to wait patiently for the day that God of sex would touch her heart.
The long-awaited day of joy came in 2015. It was during Nigeria’s 2015 Presidential Elections. She promised to come to my house after voting at her polling booth, and she kept to her promise.
BUT, the head of the camel almost passed through the eye of a needle before she could allow me to make love to her.
How?
I’ll tell you.
As we were in our foreplay mood, she requested for some money before she open her legs for me. I promised to grant her request after we must have finished enjoying ourselves, but she insisted l must give her the money before anything could happen.
After giving her the money, under pressure, she came again with some conditions. She said I must not press her breasts hard and that l must explore her gently. I fulfilled all her conditions because I wanted to experience her at all cost.
From that day, August 2014 till July 2017, I never saw her undies again. I never bothered because I loved her and I knew how difficult she was to me in that area of her life.
Deka, if you asked me, was simply a full-blown trickster made in hell. She sometimes came to my house, wearing women’s sanitary pad that she had dabbed with red ink, with a view to deceiving me that she was observing her monthly menstrual cycle.
There were occasions when she told me that her doctor warned her not to have sex for some period. All those tricks were planned to discourage me from demanding for sex from her.
In the morning of Friday, July 7, 2017, something terrible and unexpected, happened. she called me on phone and said: “John, thank you for giving me the opportunity to be your girlfriend for all these years. I’m sorry to inform you that I may not be able to continue with that relationship.”
I was literally dazed and dumbfounded by that sad news, to the extent that I couldn’t utter a word, even after she had hung up. It was a rude shock. It took me several hours to regain my consciousness.
Later in evening of that same day, I called to find out whether she meant what she told me, and she said: “I meant all that I told you in the morning.”
She went ahead to warn me repeatedly never to disturb her life again. She even threatened to call in the police and sue me for attempting to murder her, if I failed to respect her decision.
How To Punish A Greedy And Cunning Girlfriend – Part 1.
By John Wilson
…to be continued
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