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5. Responsible Men
Responsibility, here, means two things to Nigerian women, who are in a sexual relationship. One, it means the discharge of duties, morally, spiritually and financially speaking, and accepting blame, where necessary. And two, it means socially acceptable manner.
Nigerian women, therefore, love men who are seen to be totally responsible. Men who are alive to their responsibilities, including making provisions for the needs of their women and their family.
They love men who comport themselves in a commendable manner, both in and out their house. Men they can be confidently describe as ‘loving and caring.’ Men they can confidently call ‘complete gentlemen,’ without fear of contradiction from any other quarters.
6. Time-And-Attention-Generous Men
A woman once said to me: “I prefer a man who gives me his time and attention, whenever I need him, to the one who gives me money, even more than I need, but is never around me and never around to give me a listening ear.”
“As a man, finding time to spend with your lover or spouse,” remarked a high-ranking female civil servant in Anambra State of Nigeria, “helps to strengthen the relationship between the two of you. It also helps to iron things out whenever the need arises, and before an ugly situation degenerates into a fiasco.”
Another woman who spoke with me in Calabar in Nigeria’s Cross Rivers State under anonymity said: “For me, I prefer a man who stays around me most of the time and showers me with good sex, not necessarily abandoning his job, to the one who drops so much money for me and disappears until God knows when.”
7. Men Who Are Good At ‘Relationship Communication’
Most men, Nigerian men inclusive, are not goo talkers. As a result of this, they find it difficult to communicate with their wives even on very important issues of life and of their families.
Unfortunately, most women, including Nigerian women, do not understand this fact. To make the matter worse, some men oftentimes choose to keep mute, when they are expected to talk or say something on a very important issue. Some of them sometimes say or make vicious statements or comments like: “I don’t want to say anything…” or “I won’t say anything…even if you decide to shoot me?”
This kind of attitude puts off most Nigerian women, who like to be in constant communication with their spouses. Put in another way, most Nigerian women abhor men who don’t communicate or men who refuse to communicate, especially on issues that are likely or that threaten the very foundation of their relationship. They simply love those who are good at what I call ‘relationship communication’, and can do anything for such men.
8. Sexually Knowledgeable And Active Men
Apart from Reverend Sisters and other celibates, so I think, most Nigerian women love men who are good graduates of bedroom exercises and active in those exercises. Nigerian women simply love active men who are sexually inspiring and who can ‘deliver in bed,’ even beyond their expectations.
One of such outstanding men is no other person but 2Face Idibia, one of Nigeria’s foremost singer, songwriter, record producer and entrepreneur.
This, to me, makes sense, considering the fact that lack of sexual satisfaction has been known to be one of the notorious causes of fornication and her senior sister, adultery. It is also normal because sex is meant to be enjoyed, just like fried rice and chicken, among other delicacies.
Please, don’t forget to check out the first part of this article, 13 Types Of Men Nigerian Women Love Most – Part 2
…to be continued next week
